{"id":11270,"date":"2024-07-23T14:16:18","date_gmt":"2024-07-23T14:16:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/?p=11270"},"modified":"2024-07-28T15:03:48","modified_gmt":"2024-07-28T15:03:48","slug":"a-breaking-point","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/?p=11270","title":{"rendered":"<i>A Breaking Point<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"465\" src=\"https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min-1024x465.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8453\" style=\"width:840px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min-1024x465.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min-300x136.jpg 300w, https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min-768x349.jpg 768w, https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min-1536x698.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min-1170x532.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/theboholtimes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Emigrant-min.jpg 1650w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">A BREAKING point is a moment of greatest strain. Interestingly enough, the breaking points are the moments in which we need to stay calmer. Research shows that trying to control every event increases our stress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">A breaking point is a moment of stress in which we break down \u2014 it feels like you are never going to get back up again. We are more than under pressure \u2014 the situation becomes critical for our survival. Everyone faces a breaking point \u2014 we all get there in distinct ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">A breakeven point is when total costs and total revenue are equal. It&#8217;s the sales level you need to reach to cover all of your costs. Your business cannot be profitable until it has reached this point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">When I hear the word breaking point I usually think that it&#8217;s like a bomb that anytime might explode. For me, to be in my breaking point is the state of being exhausted in everything. Thinking that it&#8217;s time to end something\u2026 Most people think that when we say we are in our breaking point it&#8217;s easy to come up with a negative idea yet sometimes breaking point is not only to end something because you are exhausted, we can revise it in a positive thinking like breaking point can be a new beginning for us to be able to begin a new life with a weapon and that is our learning from our breaking point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">I got my first breaking point as a German expatriate in the Philippines as a result of culture shocks. This was a long time ago and very much different from today&#8217;s situation.&nbsp; Meanwhile I have been living here smooth and sound for several years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Nowadays, many people are experiencing mood changes. Indeed, the emotional effects of stress can have a serious impact on your day-to-day mood and mental health. Firstly, you may find that you\u2019re feeling more irritated or pessimistic than usual. This mood change can then begin to affect your motivation to work, socialise with your loved ones or complete the things on your to-do list. If left unchecked, these feelings can threaten to completely overwhelm you, leaving you feeling apathetic, depressed, frustrated, panicky or trapped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">If you&#8217;ve been asking yourself, \u201cHow do I fix my relationship?\u201d you may already be at a breaking point. A breaking point is when an argument or disagreement starts to become invasive in your life. Is it impacting your other relationships? Is it impacting your work? Is it impacting your health?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">A lot of people around me can\u2019t seem to focus or concentrate properly. If you\u2019re battling to concentrate, keep focused or remember certain things, this is a good indication that you\u2019re feeling the effects of anxiety. These changes in thinking and memory (also known as \u201cbrain fog\u201d) can occur when you\u2019re trying to manage several stressful situations at once, which can make you confused and forgetful. These situations may include demanding jobs or emotionally-taxing tasks. Unregulated emotional exhaustion can really impact your attention, executive functioning (organising and planning), and memory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">A lot of people are expressing&nbsp; difficulty with personal relationships. You\u2019ll often notice emotional exhaustion from prolonged stress manifesting in your relationship and your capacity to connect with your family on a meaningful emotional level. You may find yourself picking fights over small things, feeling angry at or unsatisfied with your partner or being overly judgmental. Tension in your close relationships can cause you to feel anxious, detached, and withdrawn which can make it difficult to ask for emotional support when you need it or be there for those you love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Low self-esteem is being reported a lot these days. If lately you\u2019ve found your mind overwhelmed with negative thoughts, you\u2019ve probably also noticed their impact on how you view yourself. Perhaps you\u2019re feeling more cynical and hopeless than usual? Or maybe you\u2019ve lacked confidence in situations where you would normally speak up. At times, you may even have found yourself wondering if what you\u2019re doing even matters anymore. It is important to recognize these changes. If left unchecked, these feelings may progress into symptoms of depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">To stay in balance you need to turn these behaviors around. The smallest changes make a difference, but pay attention to changes that aren&#8217;t so small, like getting enough sleep (without drugs), dealing with your anger and anxiety before they erupt, moving around during the day, making time to play, eating sensibly and simply being with yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">I learned that prevention is the best medicine. Reaching your breaking point means that you&#8217;ve crossed into the red zone, from which it&#8217;s hard to return. You won&#8217;t get to your red zone if you apply the habits of self-care I&#8217;ve just listed. The choice is really yours. Medical research has abundantly validated that being in balance is the healthiest way to live. Spend the next two weeks getting back into balance. You&#8217;ll be amazed and pleased with the results. I adopted a certain <em>&#8220;Bahala-na&#8221;-<\/em>emotion especially when it comes to &#8220;bad news&#8221;. I enjoy playing my piano and listening to wonderful relaxing music. I enjoy staying together with my family. I talked to God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Email:doringklaus@gmail.com or follow me on Facebook or Linkedin or visit my www.germanexpatinthephilippines.blogspot.com or www.klausdoringsclassicalmusic.blogspot.com .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A BREAKING point is a moment of greatest strain. Interestingly enough, the breaking points are the moments in which we need to stay calmer. Research shows that trying to control every event increases our stress. 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